I feel a little guilty by comparing my boys, but really it's more out of fascination for how
different they are rather than trying to hold one to the other's standard. I
love how they are different... how it goes to show that we are each fearfully and wonderfully made! And it's not like one is bad, and the other is good... it's like the challenges we had/have with Ian are easy breezy with Seth who then has his own set of difficulties that we never encountered with Ian. I've done this
before and then
again, so here is round three...
Ian started taking steps at age 10 months and was full-on walking by 11 months. Seth has been a little slower at this, but took his official "first steps" on the day he turned 13 months. He's been getting better and better since then. I feel like Seth's approach to walking has been more gradual than Ian's. Like Ian just decided to walk across the room one day whereas Seth has yet to take more than about 6-7 steps at a time. Seth also "walks" on his tiptoes which I hear/read is common, but Ian never did. Ian also learned to walk by pulling up on something and then taking off. Seth started walking only after he learned how to stand up all by himself.
Ian still used bottles until about 14 months, and insisted on those "transition" cups with the soft spouts which are basically glorified bottles. It wasn't until about age 18 months that he started using hard spouts. And it seemed like FOREVER before we could give up that bedtime bottle/cup of milk. Seth, however, didn't care much for those soft sippies and uses the same cups that Ian does now. (We just cleaned out all our cups and bought all the same kind...Playtex.) He also doesn't take a night bottle.
Ian is a drinker... if I'd let him, he'd carry around a cup all day and drink his weight in milk. I just switched him to fat free milk and have been trying to limit his intake. He's been doing about a gallon and a half a week... STILL at age 3. Seth, however, takes sips here and there. He'll drink about a half-cup with his meals, but really not much else. He probably takes in about 3/4 of a gallon a week.
Seth is an eater! Man, that kid can EAT. He'll still pretty much eat anything. His absolute favorite food is banana which is also one of his very few words ("nah-na-na"). Ian never really liked bananas and is still pretty finicky about them. Well, he's finicky about all food, and THAT has been one major difference between my boys.
Since he could crawl, Ian has always been a MOVER. Seth, however, is content to be held, snuggle, and sit in my lap. It's pretty crazy AND super sweet. I cherish this most about my baby boy. However, at bedtime, Seth is all business... put me in my crib, woman, I am TIRED. Ian would insist that I rock, read, sing... a drawn-out process that he still needs to settle down.
Both boys have had sleep challenges, but Seth is at a pretty good stage right now. He doesn't really require too many sleep "props" like Ian did and still does. Seth does use a paci at night, though. He sleeps through the night... a good 12 hours and takes one nap during the day, about 2-3 hours long. Ian usually still gets up once in the night.
Seth sleeps until 8 or so in the mornings. Ian, like clockwork, gets up at 6 a.m. and has for most of his life, it seems.
Ian has been pretty content and even-keel. Seth goes from one extreme to the other. He is either really happy or really mad and lets you know about it either way. Seth also seems to "get" how to play with toys earlier than Ian did, but he also gets frustrated with them easily.
Seth loves the water and anything related... bath, pool, splash pad (went there today for the first time). Ian does OK in the bath or kiddie pool, but is still pretty apprehensive in the neighborhood pool and at the splash pad.
Ian is a daddy's boy and has been since around 9 months. Seth is still a mama's boy.
Seth is still working on hair... at this age, Ian had already had his first haircut and maybe even his second.
Seth is very accident-prone. And sick a lot. Ian was neither.
Seth has a big brother to contend with... yeah, Ian just didn't have that. :-)
Even with all these differences, there are still some similarities... both boys LOVE music, instruments, and dancing. They also love people and are very good at charming complete strangers. Neither of them have really exhibited much in the way of separation anxiety (at least not yet for Seth). And they both bring their parents great joy (and some frustration). Gotta love 'em!