We try to go to the park every Friday. There is one within walking distance of our house. This week, we also went to the park on Monday and Thursday. Ian loves being outside and going to the park. And let's face it, when the weather is 86 degrees in February, why not? (I do look longingly at Ian's cute sweaters in his closet that he will likely never wear.)
Every time we go to the park, Ian tries something new, and it is so fun to watch him explore and learn. Of course, he has loved the swings for months now. A few weeks ago, he could barely walk around in the gravel... now he can walk just fine and even manage the edges and steps. Last week, he started climbing on things. This week, he enjoyed picking up sticks and dragging them through the rocks. And he wears this expression of wide-eyed wonder the whole time.
I do wish, however, that he would stop trying to eat the rocks. And I wish the smokers would quit littering the park with their cigarette butts, and the people with dogs would clean up after them. Oh, and here's a message to the people we met at the park today: if you say your dog doesn't like strangers, put him on a leash! My son wants to play with your dog. So, I have to control my son, while you neglect to control your dog.
I have also noticed that boys and girls play different. Yes, this is an well-known fact, but it is interesting to observe. I have seen children of all ages playing at our park. Of the toddlers, the girls seem less inclined to swing or climb... and a little hesitant to play with the rocks, in fact. Now, I overheard a mom scolding her little girl for picking up the rocks, so I wonder if some of it has to do with what the parents encourage or allow. An 18-month-old girl expressed fear about climbing on the park toys, and her mom even warned her to be careful. But Ian just marched right up there and climbed away while the little girl stood back and watched.
Of the older kids' play, I notice the boys just rough-housing and tumbling about, often bragging about what they can do... slide down backwards, hang upside down, etc. The older girls (as in elementary school age) tend to hang around on the swings and talk. If the boys and girls are playing together and things get too rough, the girls say something like, "I'm not playing anymore!" I love to watch the drama. The silly boys who say, "I'm not playing with
her," and the girls who shriek, "Don't touch me!"
Ian loves people. Stranger anxiety? Nope, we have the opposite. He waves to nearly everyone he sees. He plays peek-a-boo with people in the grocery checkout line. He is fascinated by the people at the park. So, our park trips are win-win. We get out of the house, get a little fresh air, go exploring, and meet new people. No wonder my son often stands at the back door begging to go out.
Oh, did you want to see a picture? Well, how about two?
